Thursday, April 3, 2014

Spring Fever...

Since I'm so far behind on blogging this year I figure this will basically be a photo dump of sorts. Just to share what we've been up to.

Going stir crazy in the house...
Playing in the snow. For the umpteenth time.
Adorable little girls in piggies and pink
Watching our buddy play hoops
Going on an occasional run with my favorite neighbors
Elementary school's winter festival...
Bongo drums in the music room
Photo booth fun
Dress up with mommy's shoes
Sleepovers
Mike surprised Jason with a trip to Denver with a bunch of their buddies

Wearing swimsuits in preparation for vacation!
Have I mentioned we played in the snow this winter? Like, a lot.
More. Swim. Suits.
Snuggling
Date nighting
Big Ten Tourney watching



Monon swimming
Surprise playdate
Visiting Grandma Great
Swimming with cousins in an over chlorinated pool
Quality time with my mother-in-law
Celebrating a very special birthday

And getting our toes Florida-ready...we leave for vacation in the morning. We're ready to get outta dodge. Not sure weather will be nice but we'll be with some awesome friends. And not in Indiana. Score!

Why I CrossFit...

I recently read an article titled '25 Rules For Mothers of Daughters' and one point in particular caught my attention. It read: "Teach her to be independent. Show her by example that women can be strong. Find and follow your own passions. Search for outlets of expression and enjoyment for yourself - not just your husband or children. Define yourself by your own attributes, not by what others expect you to be. Know who you are as a person, and help her find out who she is."

Throughout my adulthood I have searched for myself, for my passion and for my outlet that let me be me. For a long time it was crafting, book clubs or running marathons...until I discovered CrossFit. This sport has changed my life in so many ways. I've become more confident in myself, grown thicker skin, learned how far I can test my limits, made amazing friends and discovered the athlete I was always meant to be. I know I'm a role model for my girls. I know if they are watching me and I quit that I'm teaching them it's ok to quit. I also know they see me wake early every day to hit the gym to get stronger, better, faster. And this is what I'm most proud of.

I've heard plenty of cynics about the sport and about the time I spend away from my family. And if you're one of them, just know that I'm going to keep busting my butt no matter what you say about me. I'm showing my girls that I'm proud of the hard work and dedication I devote and that they, too, can one day be whomever they dream to be.

Selfie at the James H.otel a few weeks ago doing a brutal traveling wod in my room. The enormous mirror helped me get through 150 burpees :)
 Two-a-days before the Open consisted of heavy Outlaw training. These drills help me to PR and focus on my form. And I'm addicted to it.
 I visit a local box on the weekends and love the community that welcomes me there.
 Outlaw training = lots of lifting off the blocks
 Gaining weight goals = 6 meals a day
 Participated in my second Open this year and made improvements by leaps and bounds. Do I wish I would've performed better? Absolutely. Did these wods kick my butt? You bet. But I'm thrilled with where I ended up...
 I ranked top 25% in the world for women
 And the top 26% in my Region for women
Last year's Open I finished top 56% in the Region. That means I made a 30% rank improvement over last year. And that is why I Crossfit. Progress. I will never make it to the Games. But I will continue to strive for more. Because it feels good. And hard work pays off. And it's freaking FUN!

And finally, I devoted a solid 4 weeks to muscle up progressions (programmed by my awesome coach) that consisted of 3 days a week of drills to strengthen my shoulders and learn the technique. Last week coach asked me to just go for one. I grabbed the rings and up I went...I did it! And then proceeded to do 3 more to ensure it wasn't a fluke. I was so pumped that I did a round-off back-handspring. My muscle up is not pretty and I can't string them together. But I'm freaking doing it. I made a list of 2014 goals for myself in January and the muscle up was at the top. I scored my muscle up in March...and cannot wait to see what the rest of the year has in store for me. I guarantee it's full of hours in the gym making me a better me.

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Destination: Nashville

I know this much is true: I have the best friends and family a girl could ask for.

Last week was my thirty-seventh birthday. Not my 21st or my 40th. But an anticlimactic 37th.

Mike had told me early in January to take the Friday before my birthday off from work because he had some plans for us. I was given no further details. If you know me, you know I like to know everything about everything. I'm a details person. So being kept in the dark was killing me softly.

The day before we left my co-workers spoiled me with treats and presents. That Thursday was made so special for me and I'm grateful to have such amazing friends that I get the pleasure to work with every single day. Below are my new 1.25 lb weights for the barbell. I won't go into details, but these little beauties make a big difference in the gym. And I love them.
 Moving on. As Thursday night rolled around I started getting cranky (who, me? never!). I didn't know what to pack. I didn't really want to leave the girls for 3 days. I was going to be traveling the following week for work for 3 days. I just wasn't excited to pack up and leave. In fact, I didn't even start packing until Friday morning. Mike dropped the girls at school and came back for me...and off we went. I remember making a mental note to change my attitude and make this a good weekend; we had 3 days to ourselves for crying out loud.

We weren't on the road for more than 5 minutes and Mike turns off on a detour. I asked him what we were doing. "We're picking something up." Mmkay then. Our car was driving towards our old house. My heart immediately started pounding. My ears were ringing. I had this feeling that we were going to our old neighbors' house, Matt & Jill. And I knew exactly what that meant: they'd be joining us!!! We have talked for  years about traveling together but never pulled the trigger. Could this be the weekend?!?!

We pulled into Matt & Jill's driveway. Garage was open and Matt's car was there. That's strange. He should be at work. We walk into their house and Matt and I looked at each other like, "Why are you here?" And that's when we put it together....road trip!!!! I was so stunned and so excited and so confused at the same time. For weeks Jill had been trying to plan something with us to celebrate Matt and my joint birthdays (Matt turned 40 two days before I turned 37). She had elaborate lies that Matt and I kept piecing together, all in the name of a birthday surprise. Love her for joining in with Mike to make the weekend so incredible.

We packed all four of us into the car and were on our way. But to where? An hour into the drive Mike presents Matt and myself with this:
 We were headed to Nashville for an epic weekend. What a perfect getaway!

A few hours and a lunch at C.racker Barrel later we arrived at our hotel. We didn't waste any time; grabbed a beer from the cooler, got cleaned up and off we went.
 We stayed on the main street that runs directly into downtown, just 2 miles away from the hustle and bustle and across the street from the Vanderbilt campus. After a quick shuttle ride we arrive downtown:
 Elvis sighting
 I hadn't been to Nashville since college and didn't remember much of it. So as we walked the strip I was grinning from ear-to-ear. Every single bar and restaurant we walked by had live music. We stopped into one for a beer and a sing-a-long and moved on to the Johnny C.ash museum.
 We spent quite some time here as there was so much history to drink in.

Some of you may recall our rock-n-roll bathroom at the old house. Think this is what Mike was going for:
 Through the years
 Stunning collection of awards
 Many of his guitars were on display and I couldn't stop taking pictures of them, so freaking cool.
 Jill had been to Nashville quite a bit and knew a thing or two about where the most famous whole-in-the-wall places were for the best music. So we hit up Robert's and ended up staying there for hours. We ran into a couple from our neighborhood here in Westfield (small world!).


 Jill and I were enamored with the band. Playing the slap bass was a legend named Slick Joe Fick. He was in the Johnny C.ash movie "Walk the Line" and was quite talented and entertaining.
 On the far left is an 18 year old guitar prodigy named Danny Donato. If you ever are in Nashville you must go to Roberts for the best music in town. Must.
 The next morning (my birthday!!!) we decided to take the town on foot. First exploring Vanderbilt's campus followed by a walking brewery tour of the city. Day drinking....yummmm. 
 Jackalope was, by far, our favorite.
 And leave it to Mike to buy a graphic tee that turned out to become our weekend motto.

 Jill said we just had to visit her favorite place to shop, Hatch Show Prints. They make posters for musical artists, big and small, around the country.


 Happy birthday to me!
 Although we didn't have time to visit the CMHoF I had to snap a picture anyway.
 That evening we explored a different part of town, Printer's Alley, for some live Blues music.


 Bad lighting but best buddies.
 "Nobody leave this place without singin' the blues."

 After some blues and some grub, we ended up at another classic joint: Layla's. This is where Epic Shit went down.


Waking on Sunday morning was brutal, as Nashville treated us right. But we were all ready to get back home to our kiddos. The car ride home was quiet until our caffeine kicked in...then we started recapping and laughing at the weekend shenanigans. Was the perfect birthday weekend; one I won't soon forget.

While we were away, Bob and Laura stayed at home with the girls baking, going to movies and all the fun stuff that accompanies grandparents being in charge. Laura sent me this letter from Izzy on Saturday.
 As well as a picture of the girls. Looks like even when we are gone, their crazy ensues.
 A huge thanks to Mikey and Jilly for the best birthday weekend ever!